winter warbles

Have you ever wondered what to do when you hate winter? Seasons are visible in all aspects of life, not only in the obvious changes in temperature, weather and foliage.  Seasons exist in our relationships, our careers, our bodies. No matter how much we resist them,...

do you really want to know?

Have you ever wondered what other people think of you?  How many times have you done or not done something after concluding what other people would think or say about you if you did it?  How many times have you done it first and afterwards asked those people what they...

seeking attention

Have you ever wondered about people who are constantly looking for attention?  They can be tiresome and draining.  The best way to deal with them is to ignore them, don’t give them the attention they want, right?  Wrong!  All human beings, irrespective of age strive...

other people’s lives

Have you ever wondered about other people’s lives?  It’s tempting to ponder, judge or otherwise become emotionally involved in the decisions others make, their motives, their actions.  It’s tempting to give advice and suggestions, both solicited and unsolicited.  It...
selfish vs self-centred

selfish vs self-centred

Have you ever wondered what the difference is between selfish & self-centred? There is confusion between selfish & self-centred.  To be self-centred is to be, as the word describes, centred in the self; to be authentic, clear and conscious.  If you...
just give up!

just give up!

Have you ever wondered if there is a time to just give up?  Persistence is a big buzz word these days; “keep at it, keep holding on, never give up!”  What terrible advice!  Life will not be forced into our way of doing things.  If you are not getting the results; give...