Have you ever wondered what the difference is between selfish & self-centred?
There is confusion between selfish & self-centred.
To be self-centred is to be, as the word describes, centred in the self; to be authentic, clear and conscious. If you are not centred in self, then you are off-centre, unbalanced.
Selfishness is egocentric, centred in the ego which is a valuable but small part of the whole self. Any behaviour, thought or speaking that serves the ego is selfish, off-centre and unbalanced.
I wonder where you are being selfish and if you dare to become self-centred?